“Older men are to be sober-minded, dignified, self-controlled, sound in faith, in love, and in steadfastness.” – Titus 2:2
Scripture reading: Proverbs 4: 1-27; Titus 2:1-10
Many older men have been good teachers to me. My father taught me the faithfulness of the Christian life. My father-in-law taught me the joy of the Christian life. My grandfather taught me the love of the Christian life. My wife’s grandfather taught me the peace of the Christian life. A father in the faith taught me the wisdom of the Christian life. Younger men learn from older and wiser men in your church. Older men, be a teacher to the younger.
Other older men have taught me what I do not want to be when I am older. Ecclesiastes 7:1 says, “A good name is better than precious ointment, and the day of death is better than the day of birth.” The point is to live well, according to sound doctrine, so that you may live well and be well spoken of with a good reputation when you are older. Some older men are grumpy, complaining, insensitive and irritable. This grizzly disposition might have an explanation, but it begs the question whether the gospel was joyfully received by the brother in humility and meekness.
Older men are exhorted to be clear-headed, serious and worthy of respect, and self-controlled in their behavior; in short, they should be wise. Wisdom often comes with age, but it’s neither automatic nor guaranteed. Older men should show a wholesome trust in God (against complaining), love toward others (against irritability), and perseverance (which would counteract a lot of the grumpiness at how things have changed so much!).
Suggestions for prayer
Pray for the older men in your family and in your church—that they may have these characteristics by God’s grace. Pray that you would be humble and teachable enough to listen to the wisdom and life experience of the older men in your life.
Rev. Todd De Rooy currently serves in Redeemer URC, in Orange City, Iowa. He has served there since being ordained in 2008. It is their earnest prayer that by the grace of God, they would renounce ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright and godly lives in the present age. Get this devotional delivered directly to your phone each day via our RP App. This devotional is made available by the Nearer To God Devotional team, who also make available in print, for purchase, at NTGDevotional.com.
