“Love is patient.” – 1 Corinthians 13:3
Scripture Reading: Exodus 34:5-7; James 1:19-21
Having addressed the necessity of love, Paul now describes the character of love, starting with patience. The word he uses here means “to be long-tempered.” We have the word short-tempered in our dictionary, but, interestingly, you won’t find the word long-tempered. Perhaps that’s because being long-tempered is so rare. We are all too easily provoked, quick to anger and short-tempered. We need to be long-tempered by the Spirit.
Jerry Bridges put it this way, “This kind of patience does not ignore provocations of others; it simply seeks to respond to them in a godly manner. It enables us to control our tempers when we are provoked and to seek to deal with the person and his provocation in a way that tends to heal relationships rather than aggravate problems. It seeks the ultimate good of the other individual rather than the immediate satisfaction of our own aroused emotions.”
How can we grow in patience? It doesn’t come naturally to us. But we can grow in patience, by the Spirit, as we remember that God has a good plan behind all our circumstances (Romans 8:28). And we can be patient with difficult people because we know they are created in God’s image (Genesis 1:26). As we think deeply about the patience of God towards us in Christ, it compels us to be patient with others. “Beloved, if God so loved us [i.e. has been so patient with us], we also ought to love [be patient with] one another” (1 John 4:11).
Suggestions for prayer
Who is God asking you to be more patient with this week? In what circumstances are you usually irritable? Pray that the Spirit would remind you of God’s patience in Christ towards you and produce the fruit of patience in your life.
Rev. Brian Cochran is ordained in the United Reformed Churches in North America and has served as the pastor of Redeemer Reformation Church in Regina, SK, for 14 years. This month he starts a new call to Grace URC in Torrance, CA. Get this devotional delivered directly to your phone each day via our RP App. This devotional is made available by the Nearer To God Devotional team, who also make available in print, for purchase, at NTGDevotional.com.
