“Love…is not…rude.” – 1 Corinthians 13:4-5 

Scripture reading: Matthew 11:28-30; Titus 3:1-8

A Christian man once told me that he didn’t think he had sinned against me in what he said, though he admitted, “it was rude.” But rudeness doesn’t get a pass in the Christian life. The Apostle Paul clearly writes, “Love…is not…rude.”

Let us not be known as being rude in our speech, being abrasive or curt with others. Let us not be rude and inconsiderate in the homes of others. Let us not be rude in the morning or evening, even if we are tired. Let us not be rude to others at church, whether by being distracting during worship or rude at a fellowship meal. Rather, let us be considerate of others in the way we talk, text, e-mail, and interact on social media. Let us “be gentle, and…show perfect courtesy toward all people” (Titus 3:2).

Jesus was never rude. The Scriptures bear witness to the opposite: “My servant…will not quarrel or cry aloud, nor will anyone hear his voice in the streets; a bruised reed he will not break, and a smoldering wick he will not quench” (Matthew 12:18-20); “All…marveled at the gracious words that were coming from his mouth” (Luke 4:22); “I am gentle and lowly in heart” (Matthew 11:29).

Thanks be to God that our Saviour was not rude! Thanks be to God that our Saviour died for the times we’ve been rude! May we show our thankfulness by being polite, respectful, caring, thoughtful and well-mannered. Let us walk by the Spirit in Christ-like etiquette.

Suggestions for prayer

Confess your sins of being rude to others and rest in Christ’s completed work on the cross to atone for all your sins. Ask God to help you not to be rude and to enable you to walk in Christ-like courtesy toward all people.

Rev. Brian Cochran is ordained in the United Reformed Churches in North America and has served as the pastor of Redeemer Reformation Church in Regina, SK, for 14 years. This month he starts a new call to Grace URC in Torrance, CA. Get this devotional delivered directly to your phone each day via our RP App. This devotional is made available by the Nearer To God Devotional team, who also make available in print, for purchase, at NTGDevotional.com.