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Pornography

How to lock your phone from pornography… 101

A taste of Into the Light Ministries’ TechSafe series

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Always lock the doors.” As a boy, this teaching served me well. We lived in a place with frequent break-ins, so the danger was real and present. We only had four doors in our home so “Always lock the doors” was an easy command to follow. Teaching us this was part of what my parents did to protect our home. And protecting the home front is what loving parents do, right?

But in 2025, there are new kinds of dangers. The most dangerous doorway into your house is no longer through your front entrance – it’s in your pocket. It is in our children’s pockets and hands. And there are often hundreds of doorways to pornography on your phone. It takes time and energy to find, monitor, and lock all of these.

I’m here to help. In this article, I will show you how to lock down your phones, protect yourself and your children, and live with a phone to the glory of God. Here are eight key steps that will make your devices far safer.

Step 1: Learn the phone

Think about how often you use your phone. Have you ever asked what a phone is? Have you ever asked how information gets to your phone?

Simply put, a smartphone is an information machine. Any time you use your phone to watch a video, listen to music, or read an article you are receiving video and audio information. But information can come into a phone through Wi-Fi, data, Bluetooth, the phone's camera, and other means. Each one of these represents a unique doorway into your device and, therefore, your home. And since smartphones can fit in your pocket, they are designed to be personal and private. Statistics show that most pornography is accessed on a smartphone.

What does this mean? You need to get to know your device. You do not need to be a tech wizard, but you do need to be generally familiar with it.

Step 2: Control Wi-Fi

The main way information enters the phone is through Wi-Fi. Every app on your phone uses Wi-Fi to access the internet to obtain whatever information it needs, whether that's Spotify to stream music or Google to find a new recipe.

We sometimes think of the internet as something that is in our home, but it’s not. The internet is way out in the wide world. We access the internet through our internet service providers (ISP), and we connect to the internet providers through Wi-Fi. How does that Wi-Fi get to our devices? A router.

A router makes Wi-Fi so that all your devices can connect to the internet. Without a router, your Wi-Fi could not travel from the wire in the wall, through the air, and into your phone. Your wireless devices couldn’t connect to the World Wide Web. The router creates a Wi-Fi signal and carries the internet service through the Wi-Fi signal to every part of your house so that all your devices can connect to the internet.

This access to the internet can be used for good, such as searching for a new recipe or for a used car on Facebook marketplace. It can also be used for evil, such as searching for pornography. Normal routers carry all of this information to your phone indiscriminately of what is good and what is evil.

A smart router, on the other hand, will monitor, filter, and (if necessary) block this content before it even sends it out over the Wi-Fi. This smart router will let that recipe reach any device that searches for it, but it might block Facebook for some of the younger teens' phones while allowing it for the parents’ phones. Best of all, it will block pornography for all devices, entirely. So your second step to locking doors on your phone is to buy a smart router like Bark or Gryphon to have powerful router-level monitoring, blocking and filtering tools.

If you want more information on routers, we have an entire video on this in the TechSafe router series.

Step 3: Install Covenant Eyes

Wi-Fi-level router monitoring systems are amazing, but they only work while on Wi-Fi. When a phone is not in your home or not on your Wi-Fi network, these smart routers can’t filter anything for you. This is why an accountability system that stays on the device at all times is essential. So step three is to install accountability software to monitor, filter, and block content on the smartphone device.

We recommend you install Covenant Eyes. This accountability software helps you keep your kids or yourself accountable to what is viewed online. It even sends reports to any ally of choice. Covenant Eyes enables you to block specific websites or apps that you don’t want your child browsing on, ranging from explicit websites to even benign websites that may waste time.

To learn how to set up and install Covenant Eyes on your phone, go to CovenantEyes.com, and they will walk you through the entire process. You can try it out and get your first month free by using the code: INTOTHELIGHT.

Step 4: Assess apps

In steps one through three, you have increased your security for the whole house, but there are many doors still left open on individual devices. The most common danger points show up in a phone's apps.

Apps are just roads to get you to the information you want to view, receive, or send. While some apps can be monitored by accountability software, some cannot. An app with open access to the internet that is not monitored, filtered, or blocked is simply too risky to leave unattended.

It is vital to go through all the apps on the phone and delete any that are unnecessary or could be a road to access explicit content. If you see apps that you or your child don’t need, then delete them! There are also app categories like social media, dating, or streaming services that are very dangerous to have on a device. Unless you or your child have demonstrated significant levels of self-control, these apps should not be on the phone. They often provide direct access to explicit material through their internal browsers.

Other app types like gaming or messaging can be dangerous for other reasons, like getting sent inappropriate pictures, being groomed by a predator, or seeing sexually provocative ads after a game. This is why every app must be assessed and reviewed before leaving it on your or your child's device. It will take some serious time to work through each app, testing links, looking for chat boxes, watching for ads, and assessing any other potential danger points, but it is worth it!

Step 5: Set up parental controls

Finally, step five is to set up parental controls. Many apps and phones have parental controls built into the phone – these are good and powerful tools. See our video on video smartphones to learn more about these parental controls and to find links to the websites of the specific devices you use.

What do parental controls do? Why are they helpful in protecting yourself and your home?

They keep you from losing all the work you did in step four. Without parental controls on the device level, locking down the app store or play store, the deleted apps can just be redownloaded!

Most phones have parental or screen time controls built in that allow you to disable the app store with a password that only you know. You can also set time limits for games or communication apps, set age-level content restrictions, block in-app purchases, and set device-specific downtime. For example, if you don't think that your children should be on their devices past 10:00 pm, you can set that up through parental controls on their devices.

Many of these parental controls can be found in the settings portion of the phone itself, or have their own accompanying app that can go on your phone, so you can monitor, block, and filter your child's phone from afar. Remember, these parental controls are not designed for tech wizards, they are made for you.

Step 6: Consider other devices

If you’ve not guessed it already, smartphones are complex and very difficult to lock down. They are very powerful devices, which make them powerful to accomplish good… but also evil. Because of this, you might want to question whether or not you or your child needs a smartphone. Step six, consider “dumbphones” and “child phones.”

On the outside, dumbphones look very similar to smartphones, but their operating system is hyper-minimalistic. They have black and white screens and only a handful of features like calling, text, GPS, and a few other basic functions. That's it.

Many adults love dumbphones because they are distraction-free. But because they are so limited, they are also a safe option for your child’s first phone. It's literally impossible to surf the internet on a dumbphone, unlike some old-school flip phones. We recommend looking at the LITE Phone and the WISE Phone. A quick Google search will bring you to their website, and you can also get a small discount on your order when you use the code: INTOTHELIGHT.

If the temptation to pornography or to doomscroll Instagram is an active struggle in your life, then you should consider a dumbphone or child phone.

Step 7: Change rhythms and rules

While all of these “tech” solutions are essential to making a smartphone safe to use, they are only one-half of the conversation. You need to think through household rhythms and rules that will bolster your ability to keep an eye on things and protect yourself. If your children want a particular app, allow them to make a case for it, and then evaluate together the dangers and benefits of the app.

Here is a list of ideas to get your brain working on the patterns you might want to put in place for your home. While this list isn’t comprehensive, it is a good place to start.

  1. No phones in the bedroom: personal devices need to be used in a common area in the house.
  2. Device curfew: All devices in the home get turned off at nine or ten at night. You can also have all devices charging in the kitchen overnight, even friends' devices.
  3. All apps, software, and media need to be approved by you, the parent, or your spouse before being downloaded or watched.
  4. You, not your children, own the devices in the home, and you have the authority to check on those devices as needed. Let your children know that you might look at their apps or search history from time to time.
  5. If there is a particular way you want your children to act with their smartphone, make sure you model that yourself.
  6. If you have children, invite your older children into the conversation. These ideas should just be a start to get your mind thinking.

Ultimately you know what's best for your home. Spend some time in prayer asking the Lord for wisdom as you set up rules for your house. If you are married, make sure you do this with your spouse.

Step 8: Rinse and repeat because it’s worth it

Step eight is to rinse and repeat. Imagine if you only locked your house’s doors one day in the year. You might say to yourself, “Alright, everything is safe and locked up!” Of course, this does not account for the other 364 days of the year or the regular unlocking that happens over time. The same is true for smartphones. This “how to” is not a one-time, fix-all solution. Rather, it’s a roadmap to a lifestyle change. And thankfully, God addresses the very work you’re doing here.

In Matthew 5, Jesus teaches us how to handle these temptations to sin – radical danger calls for radical measures. He says, “If your right eye causes you to sin, tear it out and throw it away. For it is better that you lose one of your members than that your whole body be thrown into hell.” Of course, Jesus does not want you to literally tear your eyes out. Rather, He wants you to take the necessary steps to protect yourself from sin. Where temptation is present, radical measures are necessary. In fact, the way Jesus describes the dangerous result of indulging in sin – which is the eternal judgment of God – makes radical measures appear normal, even necessary. In fact, to Jesus losing an eye is nominal compared to losing your whole body. If you are tempted to sin with your phone, Jesus is calling you to tear out your right eye by locking down the doorways to sin on your phone.

Be encouraged, Jesus never calls His people to do something without providing the grace to do it.

Conclusion

Whew. That’s a lot. We understand how overwhelming this can be, but be encouraged – the fact that you are reading this article shows that you have the desire to make changes and protect your family.

May God bless your efforts to secure your home, raise children of integrity, and glorify Him supremely.

Where can I get more help?

This article is a taste of what we’re doing at TechSafe, a tutorial series for protecting every device in your home. The help doesn’t stop with just your phone; we’ve also tackled your computer, tablets, Smart TVs, gaming consoles, routers, VR headsets and more. And we have a separate tutorial for each one.

So now you don’t have to be a tech wizard to protect your home! Whether you are a parent wanting to safeguard your family, a struggler seeking to cut off access, or a pastor looking to equip your church, this series is for you. These tutorials will equip you to safely live with and enjoy your technology to the glory of God.

Let us walk you through this complicated process on our website, where we will provide everything you need to know about every device that you own. It’s all at IntoTheLightMinistries.ca/TechSafe – we will ask you for your name and email, but that’s it. It’s all free.



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9 reasons you should go to the Calgary Study Weekend this August

Calgary Study Weekend – it’s likely been a minute since you’ve heard that name, especially if you live outside of Alberta! So, who are we, and why should you (or your child) be interested in attending

Calgary Study Weekend (CSW) actually dates back to 1988! It was started by the Young People’s Society of the Calgary Canadian Reformed Church. Throughout the years, and with God’s blessing, this Bible study weekend has grown, and in 2021, we began hosting two weekends.

The first weekend, or “The Original,” is for youths ages 16 to 19, and the dates this year are August 21-25.

The second is designed for those over 19 and in the “College and Careers” era of their lives. Dates are August 14-18.

What's it like?

The weekend kicks off on Thursday evening with registration and icebreakers coordinated by the hosts of the weekend. Our hosts are young people from the Calgary congregation who will serve as leaders and tour guides for the attendees. The counselors lead campers each night in devotions and discussions, fostering mentorship between generations of believers.

Praising our God with instruments and songs is a significant element of the Calgary Study Weekend. It is assisted by campers with musical abilities who have volunteered to play piano, guitar, and lead the singing. Praise and Worship is held multiple times throughout the weekend and is a highlight for many of our campers.

Beyond speeches and sporting events, once the scheduled portion of the day has finished, campers spend the evening in a variety of activities. These include sitting around the campfire, singing songs, playing games (including life-size Dutch Blitz!), and having intense theological discussions that go well into the night.

Calgary CanRef Church has always been a transient, “small engine that could” type of church/school community. So why would our Reformed Christian camp be any different?

9 reasons to go

Our goal is to foster Christian growth and friendships in a much more intimate setting. But why should you be tempted to attend a smaller “camp” when there are larger conferences that boast of many other opportunities? Attending a small Reformed Christian camp offers several unique benefits that can deeply impact your spiritual growth, community connection, and personal development. Here are a few reasons why it could be a great choice for you (or your child):

  1. Intimate community: a small camp foster close-knit communities where relationships are more personal and meaningful. You get to know the campers and chaperones on a deeper level, which can lead to stronger bonds and accountability. It's easier to form lasting friendships and have genuine discussions about faith and life.
  2. Opportunity for personal growth: In a smaller setting, you have more opportunities for personal reflection and spiritual growth. The counselors are often able to spend more one-on-one time with campers, providing mentorship and guidance specific to your struggles and questions.
  3. Intentionality in activities: The activities at CSW are chosen with a purpose: whether it's speeches, Bible study, outdoor activities (go spikeball!), or praise + worship sessions, we always aiming to build character, encourage teamwork, and facilitate spiritual development.
  4. Supportive environment: CSW provides a more supportive and nurturing atmosphere. You'll find a group of people who genuinely care about each other's well-being, spiritually, emotionally, and mentally. It’s a place where you can feel safe, understood, and encouraged.
  5. Experiencing God's creation: CSW is set in a natural environment that invites reflection on God’s creation. This provides an excellent opportunity for quiet moments with God, whether during a hike, a campfire, or gazing at the stars.
  6. Faithful worship: On Sunday, we worship together with God’s people at the Calgary Canadian Reformed Church. In between the services all attendees are split into groups, and are hosted by a Calgary family; where the fellowship, mentorship, and fun continue (besides, who doesn’t love Dutch meatball soup)!
  7. Clear biblical foundation: Since it’s a Reformed Christian camp, CSW will have a strong commitment to Biblical authority and Reformed doctrine. You can come to this camp knowing that you have the same foundational beliefs as the person beside you. We are grounded in Scripture and theology.
  8. Lasting impact: The experiences and lessons you learn at a small Reformed Christian camp are often more impactful and memorable because of the personal setting. Many people leave with a deeper commitment to their faith, lasting friendships, and a clearer understanding of God’s calling in their life.
  9. Cost: last but not least! We love that we can offer all of this at a reasonable cost! Summer is “hay-making” season for most of you, and taking time off work is a big deal. In addition to this, we’ve structured the camp to be over a weekend, so your boss doesn’t have to get annoyed when you ask him for too much vacation time.

While the weekend itself has changed and adapted to the times over the years, one thing remains certain: it is a time focused on growth in the gospel and establishing friendships with believers across the country in a relaxed and God-glorifying atmosphere.

You can find out more about us at our website.

We hope to see you there!


Today's Devotional

April 25 - Joyful affliction

“The afflicted shall eat and be satisfied; those who seek him shall praise the LORD! May your hearts live forever!” - Psalm 22:26 

Scripture reading: Deuteronomy 24:19-22

The joy in this section of the psalm is such that all are blessed by it. Verse 26 affirms this as it speaks of the afflicted eating of this and being satisfied by it. This is something >

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The Means of Grace: The Heidelberg Catechism

Serving #823 of Manna, prepared by Jake Torenvliet, is called "The Means of Grace" (The Heidelberg Catechism).

















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Demi's fresh folk tales

Demi (1942-  ) is the nickname that Charlotte Dumaresq Hunt's father gave her as a child because she was half the size of her sister. Demi grew up to be a prolific author, crafting more than 300 picture books so far. Her popular output can be divided into two categories: biographies of famous figures, many of them religious, folktales from most Eastern countries like India, Russia, and especially China. It's these folk tales that drew me in. We're so familiar with our Western catalog of Hansel and Gretel, Three Billy Goats Gruff, Little Red Riding Hood, and Jack and the Beanstalk that a new-to-us folktale is quite a treat. That freshness is what drew me in, but there's a real educational value here too – these offer a taste of foreign lands and cultures. Of course, it's that same originality that bears watching – these are not Christian tales. A few of her biographies could also be worth a read, but the biggest problem with Demi is her lack of discernment. She always lauds whoever she is writing about, and since the people she covers come from a variety of religions that contradict one another, these figures can't all be good – it only takes a little logic to understand that if two people say opposite things about what most matters in life, then at least one must be wrong. But Demi celebrates Jesus and also Muhammad, Mother Teresa, the Dalai Lama, and Buddha. This lack of discernment means parents and Christian school librarians shouldn't buy her books en masse. And, that need for parental and Christian school librarian discernment is all the more important because of Demi's 4-8-year-old target audience, who have yet to learn much discernment themselves. I've read 40+ of her books so far, and what follows are the 11 I can recommend, 5 more that could be good with some parental or teacher involvement, and then an overview of her many books that would be best avoided. I've also focused on her books that are the most available, so I think you should be able to find copies of most of these either at Amazon, or from your local library. They are ordered by year published. RECOMMENDED (11) Marie Curie 2018 / 32 pages Marie Curie was, without a doubt, a genius, being one of just four people to win two Nobel Prizes. This is the story of her upbringing, education, and marriage to fellow scientist Pierre Curie, and how they discovered radioactivity, which was both a brilliant accomplishment and, they learned too late, a very dangerous one. While radiation can be used for good and to cure via inventions like X-ray machines, radiation can also cause sickness, especially after prolonged exposure, which is why Marie died of leukemia at age 66. Her husband also suffered ill effects from radiation, but was struck dead in the street in an accident, or he too might have died of some radiation-related illness. Demi has a tendency to hype who she profiles, and while that hagiographic approach can be a problem (especially when she inserts legends as if they are facts), in this book it is a boon – it means that while she mentions the grim effects of radiation, she doesn't dwell on it, making this book appropriate for even small children in a way that a more detailed, and consequently more grim, book wouldn't have been. The shady tree 2016 / 32 pages The boy Ping (from The Empty Pot, see below) makes his return, this time as a poor boy who just wants some shade on a hot day and sits down in the shade of a tree. Rich boy Tan Tan chases Ping away, declaring that, "This is my tree! I own all of it: the trunk, the branches, the leaves, and the shade – everything." All Ping wants is the shade, so he makes an offer on it. The rich boy, thinking he is scamming Ping, accepts. But the joke is on Tan Tan, because a tree's shade moves throughout the day, and the new owner of that shade is moving with it, right into Tan Tan's house and even his bedroom! Tan Tan can't go back on his deal, and in frustration, eventually moves away... but far from any friends. So, at book's end he comes back, and Ping is very happy to share his shade. This is a fun folk tale with an understated moral (maybe, share? or, don't scam folks?). Demi first published a version of this story in 1979 under the title The Shade of the Mulberry Tree, with the principal difference being that instead of two boys, the story is about two men, and the rich man never comes back. Florence Nightingale 2014/ 40 pages This is an inspiring account of the life of Florence Nightingale (1820-1910), the "mother" of modern nursing. A brief nod to her love for the Lord is made: "Florence was a religious person, and she felt that God wanted her to help people." Her innovations are taken for granted now, but were life-changing then – she made sure patients got good food, and were living in clean conditions. She had also traveled to different hospitals across Europe, noting their best practices. The results her approach garnered had her being consulted by the English army, the US government, and by the Queen too. As her true tale highlights, she was a hardworking, smart woman who was responsible for medical care improvements that saved countless lives. The magic pillow 2008 / 32 pages Ping makes another appearance, and this time he comes across a magician with a magic pillow that can grant your every wish. When poor Ping falls asleep on it, he dreams of becoming rich and powerful. But with his wealth and power comes jealousy, and people begin telling lies about him and accusing him, until he is thrown in jail. After a long time he is set free, and regains his power and wealth. But then he sees his sons and grandsons seeking power and wealth too. When they gain it, people become jealous of them too, and tell lies about them too, and get them thrown in jail too. On and on it repeats, the rise and fall of his family. Then Ping woke up. When he did, he thanked the magician and told him he was now content to live as he was, and did not need wealth or power. The hungry coat 2004/ 40 pages "Once upon a time in Turkey there lived a funny, little wise man named Nasrettin Hoca. He wore a huge, white turban and a worn-out coat made of patches upon patches. Riding about on his little gray donkey, he liked to help whomever he could." Nasrettin was popular, but when he helps catch a goat and then heads to his friend's party in his patched coat – now smelling of goat – his friends won't even sit next to him. So he heads home, gets cleaned up, and puts on a new fabulous coat. When he returns to the party, he is now the guest of honor, placed right next to the host. But as the food and wine is shared, Naserttin does a strange thing. He starts to feed his coat. "Eat coat, eat," he says as he tucks lamb chops, sugar cakes, figs, and apples in his coat. When asked to explain himself he notes that he is only treating his coat as the guest of honor. It was clear, from when he was here earlier, that it was not him they liked, otherwise they would have treated him better when he first arrived. But now that he is back with a better coat, they love him, so it must be the coat that is the guest and not him. It's a clever way to call out his friends, and they take it well, praising him for his wisdom. The donkey and the rock 1999 / 32 pages When a wood seller's donkey knocks an oil jar off a rock, the oil salesman is distraught – how will he feed his family now? Who is at fault, and what can be done? The two men – wood seller and oil salesman – are both honest, hardworking, and good fathers and husbands, so they decide to go to the king for his judgment. He rules them both not responsible, and demands that the donkey and rock be arrested and brought to trial. That has folks wondering what's going on, so they all come to see this trial of the century. And when they arrive, the king charges them all money, because they came to see a spectacle. Then he gives the money to the oil salesman to make up for what he lost. Seems like there is a lesson here parents could share about always wanting to see the latest thing – itching eyes are not a new phenomenon. One grain of rice: a mathematical folktale 1997 / 32 pages Set in India, this tells a tale that begins a bit like Joseph's advice to Pharoah to store up grain. Each year the local raja takes most of the people's grain, promising to store it safely "so that in a time of famine everyone will have rice to eat and no one will go hungry." But when the famine does come, he won't release the grain, keeping it for himself in case the famine is very long. But when a peasant girl earns a reward from the raja, she asks for what seems a modest reward. She would be given a single grain of rice, but given two the next day, and continuing to double each day thereafter for thirty days. The raja agrees. For the first week it is only a paltry reward – she gets 1, then, 2, 4, 8, 16, 32, and finally 64 grains of rice, the last of which isn't even a handful. But by the end of two weeks, she is now getting two full bowls of rice grains. As adults may realize, by the end of the thirty days she will have all the raja's grain, as the compounding really adds up. This is, as the subtitle notes, quite the "mathematical folktale"! The one practical problem is that this book features a two-page foldout to show just how many elephants were needed to carry all the grain on the last day. And such foldouts are liable to not be refolded with due care, and can get a bit crumpled, as happened with the copy I read. But otherwise, a very good book! Grass sandals: the travels of Basho 1997 / 32 pages Basho was one of Japan's masters of the haiku, and this brief biography follows him on a walking tour of Japan. Each double-page spread includes a hundred or so words describing his latest stop, but also a haiku covering the same topic. The quiet nature of the story (the illustrator shares her daughter's complaint, "Mom, nothing happens in this book") means that while it would make a charming introduction to haiku poetry, it won't be enjoyed simply as a picture book. The firebird 1994 / 32 pages This Russian tale's title makes it seem as if it is about a bird. But none of the three main figures here can fly. The first two are an archer and his loyal talking horse, and their opponent is the tsar they serve, who won't let any good deed go unpunished. He sends the pair out on one hazardous magical mission after another, but in the end he gets his just, self-inflicted desserts, and the archer and his pony get their happily ever after. The empty pot 1990 / 32 pages George Bush Sr.'s wife, Barbara picked this one, when it first came out, for her Mrs. Bush's Story Time radio program. It's about a Chinese boy named Ping (who shows up in The Shady Tree too) who has the greenest of green thumbs – he can make anything grow, almost like magic. The country's aged emperor needs to pick an heir and settles on giving all the children a flower seed to grow, and tells them "Whoever can show me their best in a year's time will succeed me to the throne." Ping figures he has a great chance, but try as he might, he can't get the seed to grow. He tries everything, but.... nothing. When the year passes all he has is an empty pot, whereas all the other children have all sorts of gorgeous flowers to show the emperor. It turns out, however that the emperor cooked all the seeds, so none of them could have grown, and only Ping was honest enough to show his true best effort, so the Emperor names the boy as his successor! The moral of this story and its surprise twist (I don't think little kids will see it coming) make this quite the powerful little lesson. Liang and the magic paintbrush 1980 / 32 pages Liang desperately wants to learn to paint, but the local art teacher will not give lessons to someone as poor as Liang. However, as he slept "an old man appeared on a phoenix and placed a brush in Liang's hand." It was a magic brush able to turn real whatever he painted (reminiscent of Harold and the Purple Crayon). When the emperor hears of it, he demands that Liang paint a dragon. Liang paints a frog instead and is sent to prison. He makes a deal that he'll "paint whatever the emperor wished." The emperor demands Liang draw a sea, a boat, and, after getting on the boat, the emperor demands Liang draw him wind. So Liang does – lots of wind! The boat capsizes with the emperor on board. This is a "just desserts" tale, as many a folk tale is. TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT (5) These are not bad books so much as they have a caution or two that parents should consider. King Midas: the golden touch 2002 / 48 pages You likely know about the curse that came with King Midas's golden touch. He asked a Greek god for the power to turn anything he touched to gold, but then found he was going to starve to death, as even his food turned golden. But did you hear about how he was cursed with donkey's ears? This is a longer retelling of the myth of King Midas, including this donkey bit that often doesn't make the cut. The downside is that the Greek god Silenus is depicted as covered with roses rather than clothes. You don't see anything, but some skin tone shows up through the flowers in places that should really be covered. I'm making it sound worse than it is – there are a lot of roses – but it did strike me as weird to have any skin showing through in a kids' book. The other downside is a practical one for any school library considering this book. It has a two-page foldout that is bound to get crumpled... as it was in the copy I borrowed from our public library. The greatest treasure 1998 / 32 pages Pang, a rich man, finds it hard to keep track of how much money he has, because whenever he is counting it, the poor man next door, Li, distracts him with his flute playing. So the rich Pang decides to give Li a generous monetary gift... but only to distract him from playing his flute. And it works. Li is soon so busy worrying about and counting and hiding his money that he doesn't play his flute at all. Finally, his wife steps in and reminds him, "He who has heaven in his heart is never poor." Li agrees, and gives the money back, along with flutes for the whole Pang family! This warns of how money can be an obsession, and I would have rated it higher but for the title. Peace and happiness are good indeed, but children need to understand that they are not "the greatest treasure of all" any more than money is. So, this could be a good one to get out of the public library and read along with your kids. The stonecutter 1995 / 32 pages An envious stonecutter thinks the grass is always greener elsewhere but eventually learns contentment. How does he learn his lesson? By being granted his wishes. First, he's envious of a rich man, and wishes to be one. When that wish is granted, he becomes envious of the governor, and wishes to be one. But even when that's granted, there always seems someone stronger and greater, so on and on his wishes go. Finally, he wishes to be an enormous, immovable stone – what is stronger than that? Well, stonecutters. And so his final wish is granted and he returns to stone cutting, content in his life. The only reason Stonecutter got bumped down here is that the wish granter is an angel, and, as opposed to genies, angels are real and don't act this way, and we shouldn't confuse kids on that point. But it could be a good read with a parent along for the ride. Hans Christian Andersen's Thumbelina 1988 / 32 pages With lots of text on each page, this is quite a lengthy retelling of Thumbelina, the girl who was only a thumb tall. This a more fairy than folk tale, with fairies at the start, and fairies at the end. As she does in every version, Thumbelina has quite the series of adventures, getting kidnapped by a frog, and basically imprisoned by a mole and mouse, before being freed by a swallow she'd nursed back to health. There is a happy ending, with Thumbelina finally finding the right match for her. As nice as the story is, it's also a pointless one, which is why it is in the "Take it or leave it" section. Chen Ping and his magic axe 1987 / 32 pages A poor Chinese boy, Chen Ping, is sent to the forest to chop wood for his master. His master is very stern, so when Ping accidentally drops his axe into the river, all he can do is sit down and cry. Fortunately, a mysterious stranger appears and dives in to retrieve Ping's axe for him. When the stranger surfaces, he asks if the beautiful silver axe he has recovered is Ping's. "No," Ping replies honestly, "that is not my axe." Next up is an even more amazing golden axe, but Ping again tells the truth that it is not his. Finally, the stranger comes up with Ping's axe and notes that for his honesty, the axe will now magically do most of the work for him. When Ping's master hears Ping's story, he heads straight to the river and drops in an axe. Sure enough, the stranger appears and offers to retrieve it. But the master keeps saying that each axe the stranger retrieves is not splendid enough to be his. When the stranger comes up with a huge gold one, the master excitedly claims it as his own. But on his way home, in his excitement, he jumps up and down and breaks the bridge, and falls into the river, never to be seen again. This is a classic folk tale complete with a moral to the story that honesty is good and lying is bad. I was going to place it in the recommended section, but will note a caution for it: unfamiliar folktales are both a treat (different than another retelling of Cinderella), and have a little bit of a danger in that they can confusingly sound like the miracles of the Bible. So, for example, Elisha recovered an axe too, making an axe head float (2 Kings 6:4-6), and the chariot the stranger comes riding in on could have a child thinking of the chariot Elijah rode off on (2 Kings 2:11-12). So, this is a good book, but one that'd be better with a parent or teacher reading and explaining it. DON'T BOTHER Demi authored 300 titles and among those are many stories lauding pagan religious figures. She doesn't pick sides, praising Florence Nightingale as a Christian heroine and then praising Muhammad and Confucius in the same manner. This has me thinking of 1 Kings 18:21 where we read about how: "...Elijah approached all the people and said, 'How long will you waver between two opinions? If the LORD is God, follow Him. But if Baal is God, follow him.' But the people did not answer a word." Demi waffles as well, which means lots of her books are not worth bothering with. Even her biographies of Christian figures – laudatory though they are – should sometimes be avoided because she treats as fact some legends. So, for example, in her biography of St. Nicholas (the real man who inspired the mythical Santa Claus), we learn that "on his very first day he stood up in his bath and prayed to God!" Her Mary is full of what I presume is Roman Catholic nonsense about Mary being raised in the temple from the age of 3. As there are actually far too many bad titles to cover, I'll share just a partial list to give you a feel of what to avoid: Confucius: great teacher of China The legend of Lao Tzu and the Tao Te Ching Buddha stories Muhammad Mother Teresa The fantastic adventures of Krishna The wisdom of Solomon CONCLUSION Demi may have quite a bundle of titles to avoid – she might have many more bad than good – but her best titles offer a new and fresh-for-us twist on folktales. That makes these recommended reads worth trying to track down. You and your kids will love them!...