Today’s we have a guest post by Jason Bouwman laying out the two ways society views human worth. And he asks, which of these two views leads to a better society?
In his now famous TedTalk author Simon Sinek unlocks the secret to how the most powerful leaders shape their messages. They start with “Why?” “Your Why“, says Simon, “is the purpose, cause, or belief that inspires you to do What you do.” Simon illustrates with great clarity how powerful it is when leaders of any organization or movement start their message with an explanation of their purpose, their beliefs.
I thought about this yesterday as I stood on the side of Main St. in Grimsby quietly participating in the Life Chain demonstration. I wondered how many of the people driving by really understood why we were there – our purpose, our belief.
I wondered too if my fellow demonstrators really understood how people with opposite views on the issue of abortion can arrive hold the position they do. You can’t really take seriously the folks who drive by yelling at you and giving your kids the finger. But putting that aside for the moment, let’s be honest; demonstrations are not the most effective format for respectful and rigorous debate. They tend to polarize groups into opposing camps and do little to create empathy between people who hold different views. We’re content to consider each other crazy.
However, at one point in yesterday’s hour-long demonstration a passing motorist rolled down her window and yelled to demonstrators “It’s my body, It’s my choice!” And I thought; There it is! Her “Why.” Her belief. And as horrifying as the consequences of that belief are, it struck me how perfectly logical it was that this woman might also support the idea that she has a right to end the life of another human being. There’s nothing wrong with her logic. She’s not crazy per se. She just doesn’t believe that the human growing inside her is…well, human. And that is precisely where we differ.
I believe that human life starts at conception. And that belief changes everything. I’m not crazy either. Far from it. Feminist author and pro-choice advocate Mary Elizabeth Williams (also a staff writer for Salon) would agree with me. In an article that Mary wrote titled “So what if abortion ends life?” she states the following: “I know that throughout my own pregnancies, I never wavered for a moment in the belief that I was carrying a human life inside of me. I believe that’s what a fetus is: a human life.” She goes further:
“When we on the pro-choice side get cagey around the life question, it makes us illogically contradictory….When we try to act like a pregnancy doesn’t involve human life, we wind up drawing stupid semantic lines in the sand.”
I totally agree. Which makes Mary’s following statement so confusing. She says “And that doesn’t make me one iota less solidly pro-choice.”
How can someone believing that the fetus inside them is human still claim the right to kill it? That does sound crazy to me.
1) All life is not equal
But Mary explains…
“Here’s the complicated reality in which we live: All life is not equal. That’s a difficult thing for liberals like me to talk about, lest we wind up looking like death-panel-loving, kill-your-grandma-and-your-precious-baby storm troopers. Yet a fetus can be a human life without having the same rights as the woman in whose body it resides. She’s the boss. Her life and what is right for her circumstances and her health should automatically trump the rights of the non-autonomous entity inside of her. Always.”
And there it is: Mary’s “Why.” Her belief. Mary believes that some humans are more important than others. She’s forced herself to believe that or else her pro-choice position would be, to use her own words, “illogically contradictory.” Mary also thinks she should be the one to decide whose lives, in particular, are more important and whose aren’t.
And this why I (and many others) stand in silent demonstration at the corner of Main St. and Christie St. each year.
2) All are equal because all are made in God’s image
I believe that I am not my own (Nope. Not my body. Not my choice) ie: I do not belong to myself. Rather, I believe that in both life and in death I belong to my faithful saviour Jesus Christ. I belong to and submit to the one (and only) creator-God who made me and who alone determines the purpose of my life. Therefore I personally am not the ultimate authority on what I can or cannot do with my life or the life of others. I believe that all lives including the lives of those who stand in direct opposition to what I believe are equally sacred and worthy of protection. I believe that the protection of life is everyone’s responsibility and so also my responsibility. My purpose here on earth is to love God, love my fellow human beings and to serve them by putting their life and well-being ahead of my own.
I and those who believe as I do are not fighting for self-importance or survival. We’re fighting to outdo one another in kindness. I realize that we can’t make you believe what we believe. But surely you can see that we’re not crazy either.
Which kind of society do you want?
And to those of you who don’t quite know what you believe consider this: What kind of society do you wish to experience? What kind of society do you wish to build for your children? What kind of leaders will you choose to support and follow?
Will you follow those who believe that some lives are more important than others (who believe that their lives are more important than yours perhaps)? Or will you choose to follow those who believe all lives are of equal value, and who believe that leaders should put others ahead of themselves? Simon “Start-with-why” Sinek has another book out which may help you decide. It’s called Leaders Eat Last. This choice is indeed yours.
I’m praying that you’ll choose wisely.