In my idyllic and very Christian small town I keep forgetting that even here there’s a spiritual war going on. This past weekend I got a reminder in amongst the books we borrowed from the public library when two titles were pushing the same agenda.
The first was by well-loved children’s author Patricia Polacco about a family with two moms. God’s view of marriage – as being between a man and woman – was represented in the story by a snarling, glaring neighbor.
The second was a chapter book about a girl competing in a TV game show who had two dads.
While we parents should know what our kids are reading, if you have a child who reads a lot this becomes harder and harder to keep up with as they get older. But, as the Adversary knows, you are what you eat. And if he can sneak in a diet of “homosexuality is normal,” he can win our kids over before parents even know a battle is happening.
So, what’s the answer? Should we monitor our children’s book intake closer? That’s part of it. Should we rely on Christian school libraries more (if you have access to one)? That seems a good idea. Would it be wise to invest in a high-quality personal home library – only fantastic (and not simply safe) books? That’s a great idea.
But, as our kids get older, it’s going to come down to talking through this propaganda to equip them to see through it. It will mean explaining to them that we oppose homosexuality because God does, and that even in prohibiting homosexuality God shows his goodness. As Cal Thomas put it:
“God designed norms for behavior that are in our best interests. When we act outside those norms – such as for premarital sex, adultery, or homosexual sex – we cause physical, emotional, and spiritual damage to ourselves and to our wider culture. The unpleasant consequences of divorce and sexually transmitted diseases are not the result of intolerant bigots seeking to denigrate others. They are the results of violating God’s standard, which were made for our benefit.”
We have to share with our children that our Maker knows what is best for us, and homosexuality isn’t it. Like many an idol (money, sex, family, career, drugs) it might even bring happiness for a time, but, like every other idol, it doesn’t bring lasting joy, it won’t save us, and it will distance us from the God who can.