“He sent letters to all the royal provinces…that every man be master in his own household…” – Esther 1:22

Scripture reading: Esther 1:13-22

A royal conference is called to fix a problem that was not the fault of a woman in the first place, but of a man who did not manage his household well. The conference is comprised of worldly disciples, who are led by the abuse of alcoholic spirits instead of the Holy Spirit. In the process, they promote chaos instead of order by an oppressive law: “Husbands are gods to their wives, like Ahasuerus is a god to his bride and everything else. Every woman must always listen to her husband.” Willing wives of love are not wanted; compelled wives are. What chaos!

What a contrast to the kingdom of Christ, whose gospel not only saves believing husbands and wives, but fills their households with sacrificial love and willing service, thanks to the sacrificial love of Christ.

True men do not base their roles as husbands on a self-perceived absolute power, but rather on their Saviour who gave His life up for His bride, the church. Laws need not be passed, therefore, compelling women to submit to their husbands; they will do so willingly when they have Christ-like husbands who are willing to sacrifice for their wives and to please them. Such loving sacrifice is true power at work – not the power of the tyrant, but the power of someone touched by Christ’s love. Christ’s love is reflected in the home of a husband who heeds the call to lead in righteousness, devotion and love, not by compulsion and selfishness.

Suggestions for prayer

Thank God for Christ’s sacrificial love. Pray that Christ’s sacrificial love might be evident even more by Christian husbands, and by all of us who are called to be followers of Christ.

Rev. John Vermeer is Pastor Emeritus of Doon United Reformed Church in Doon, Iowa and is currently living in Cedar Lake, Indiana. He has served churches in Kansas, Iowa, and Illinois over the course of 34 years. Get this devotional delivered directly to your phone each day via our RP App. This devotional is made available by the Nearer To God Devotional team, who also make available in print, for purchase, at NTGDevotional.com.